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Family Issues
ISTG that dealing with my family is like having children who do not grow up. I truly want to scream and close all doors and windows. Many would have long ago. I think they're the children - my mom was also one - who G_d intended me to have - not biological kids of my womb. I've been a caregiver since I was a child. No, it's not right. And it worsens as they have health issues, financial issues, and age.
Narcissism 101 (Rephrased)
Someone posted this on Facebook about two years ago and it's absolutely true. (I rephrased it to reflect my experiences.) Narcissism 101: Did the narcissist ever trust and love me? Does he or she trust and love his or her children? Answer: No. A person who lacks compassion and empathy is not capable of trusting, loving, or making love or friends. They use "trust" and "love" as their camouflage because they want all the benefits of a relationship, friendship, marriage, or children without ANY of the work. Why? Because this serves them and helps feed their illusion of normalcy they can provide to the world. They have toxic fear of shame of being exposed for the weak, spineless, powerless individuals they really are and use friendship, trust, love, and marriage to provide a false illusion of lies they WANT the world to see so they seek, hunt for, and target LONG LASTING narcissistic supply and so who do they target? You got it. The kindest, most compassionate, generous, best looking
Taal Volcano Eruption 2020
The Taal Volcano was somewhat quiet the last time I went hiking there with my aunt, my cousin, my cousin's supervisor, and my last stay-in helper (the narcissist). This year my family, our current helper, and I experienced ashfall in Dasma, Cavite last Sunday.
2019
Due to the recent events, what I'm about to write is going to be disheartening even for me.
My closest family, which isn't close, consists of my two half-brothers, my adopted sister, my aunt, my three cousins, my cousin-in law, my nephew, my niece, my uncle, and my uncle's partner (my other aunt).
Year 2019:
Due to the merger, my aunt was redundated. I was her go-to girl when help was needed.
My last stay-in helper (the abusive one) has been a bitch all year - she used the dining spoon instead of the proper equipment for frying food, talked back to me when I reminded her of what she did wrong, and falsely accused me of hitting my dog with
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